Glossary
Definition: Skilled questioning is the cornerstone of consultative selling. It’s not just about asking questions, but asking the right questions at the right time to gather information, guide the conversation, and engage the customer. There are various types of sales questions – open-ended, closed-ended, probing, leading, hypothetical – each with its purpose. The goal of questioning techniques is twofold: (1) Discovery – to uncover the prospect’s needs, desires, concerns, decision process (basically to learn what you need to tailor your approach), and (2) Alignment – to help the prospect articulate their situation in a way that reveals the fit (or gap) with your solution. Great questions create a dialogue rather than a one-sided pitch. They also show that you’re interested and attentive, which builds trust. In fields like insurance or financial services, for example, asking thoughtful questions can help a client realize problems or gaps they weren’t even considering (“Oh, I hadn’t thought about what I’d do if X happened…”). Being adept in questioning keeps you “one step ahead” because you’re not making assumptions – you’re getting the information straight from the source. As a result, your subsequent pitch or conversation is precisely on target for that customer. It’s often said that in a sales call, whoever is asking the questions is in control – not in a manipulative way, but in the sense of guiding the flow. By asking and then truly listening to answers, you control the conversation constructively.
Key Question Types and When to Use Them:
Open-Ended Questions: These are questions that cannot be answered with a simple yes or no – they prompt the customer to elaborate. They often start with Who, What, Where, When, Why, or How. For example: “How do you currently handle X?”, “What are your priorities when choosing a vendor for Y?”, “Why is this important to you now?” Open-ended questions are gold in the early discovery phase because they get the customer talking. The more they talk, the more you learn. Additionally, open questions make the interaction feel like a conversation, not an interrogation or monologue – they “create a healthy dialogue while gently encouraging the customer to share info and uncover their pain points”. Use them to explore needs, challenges, preferences, and experiences. (E.g., “What challenges are you facing with your current solution?” will yield a lot more insight than “Is your current solution working well?” which might just get a shrug “It’s fine.”)
Closed-Ended Questions: These usually elicit a short or specific answer – often yes/no or a factual detail. “Do you have an existing contract with a provider?”, “How many locations do you need to cover?” These are useful for pinning down specifics or confirming understanding. They’re also good for narrowing down – after a broad discussion, you might ask, “So, would you say the top priority is improving reliability, correct?” (A yes/no to confirm). Closed questions are efficient but if overused can make the conversation stiff. They’re best mixed in after open questions, or to get decisive input on a particular point. Think of them as tools to get clear facts or a commitment on a sub-point.
Probing Questions: A follow-up question digging deeper into something the prospect said. If they mention, “Our main issue is seasonality – sales fluctuate a lot,” a probe could be, “Interesting. What kind of fluctuations are we talking about, and how does that strain your operations?” Probing signals you’re paying attention and want to understand all nuances. It often encourages the customer to reflect further or reveal underlying causes. Probe especially when you sense there’s more beneath a short or surface answer. It’s like saying “Tell me more about that.”
Leading Questions: These are questions that suggest a particular answer or steer the conversation toward a point. They must be used carefully (and sparingly) because you don’t want to come off as patronizing or trapping the customer. A gentle example: “Would it be fair to say that if we could solve problem X, it would significantly impact your bottom line?” This leads the customer to envision the benefit (assuming they agree). Another: “Don’t you think having a reliable backup system would give you peace of mind?” – they’ll likely say yes, who wouldn’t want peace of mind? Leading questions can be useful to gain agreement on a widely accepted point or to highlight a benefit in question form. Just ensure the answer truly is likely to be “yes” or positive, or you could backfire. Also, use them after you’ve established rapport and some trust, otherwise it might seem like you’re putting words in their mouth.
Hypothetical Questions: “What if” scenarios that help the prospect imagine a situation. “If you had a magic wand, what’s one thing you would improve in your current process?” or “Suppose you did implement a new CRM – how do you envision it helping your business day-to-day?”. These are great to get the customer thinking creatively or to surface desires without the constraints of reality for a moment (the magic wand trick). It can reveal their ideal outcomes or hidden wants. Also, hypothetical problem scenarios can test how they’d handle something: “If your main machine failed tomorrow, what would you do?” If they struggle to answer, it highlights a need (maybe for your maintenance service). It’s a way to make them consider the impact of not having a solution, which can create urgency.
Best Practices in Questioning:
Start Broad, Then Drill Down: Often, you use a funnel approach. Begin with broad open questions to get the landscape (“Tell me about your business growth plans.” Then, “What challenges do you foresee in reaching that goal?” Then if they say e.g. hiring is a challenge, “How are you handling hiring currently?”, and further down “Why is that approach falling short?”). You’re narrowing to specifics. This mirrors the SPIN selling technique (Situation, Problem, Implication, Need-payoff questions) – you first ask about the current situation, then identify a problem, then ask about implications (consequences of the problem), then get them to articulate the payoff of solving it. For example, using SPIN structure: “How are you managing inventory now?” (Situation), “Have you encountered issues with stockouts or overstock?” (Problem), “What happens when you stock out of a popular item?” (Implication – prospect might say “we lose sales and upset customers”), “If you had a way to predict and avoid stockouts, how would that impact your business?” (Need-payoff – prospect hopefully says “that would increase sales and customer trust”). You’ve now set the stage perfectly to present a solution. Notice, you did this through asking, not telling – so the conclusions came from the customer’s own mouth, which is incredibly persuasive.
Active Listening and Piggybacking: After asking, truly listen to the answer. Don’t jump to the next question on your list if the answer begs a follow-up. Adapt in real-time: if they mention something intriguing (“We tried something like this last year, but it failed”), you must ask about that: “Oh, interesting – it failed? What happened, and why do you think it didn’t work?” This shows you care and might uncover a potential landmine or opportunity. Sometimes the best question is a simple “Can you elaborate on that?” or “How do you mean?” when something isn’t clear. Also, acknowledge their answers with small verbal nods (“I see,” “Got it,” “That makes sense”) – this encourages them to keep sharing. Richardson Sales Training notes that open questions help build trust and uncover needs – we see that directly.
Avoid Interrogation Mode: Be conversational. Too many back-to-back questions can make the prospect feel grilled. Instead, weave in responses like “Thanks for sharing that” or paraphrase their answer (“So, if I heard you right, your busy season is winter and that’s when staffing is a big issue.”). This makes it a discussion, not an interview. A useful rhythm is: question -> listen -> paraphrase/acknowledge -> (maybe answer a small question they have) -> next question. It should feel natural. Early on, you can even preface, “I have a few questions just to understand your situation better, is that okay?” Once they agree, they’re more comfortable with multiple questions.
Don’t Ask What You Should Know: Do your homework in advance to avoid asking obvious questions that you could’ve researched. It shows respect for their time. For instance, if you can find the size of their company on LinkedIn or their website, don’t ask “How many employees do you have?” Instead, maybe say “I saw on your site you have about 50 employees – are most of them here in the main office?” That’s a better-informed question. Save your questions for things you cannot find out elsewhere – typically, personal experiences, opinions, nuanced processes, etc. Good questioning is targeted.
One Step Ahead with Questions: The beauty of mastering questioning techniques is that it transforms sales from pitching at the customer to collaboratively exploring with the customer. As the Richardson training highlights, open-ended questions especially are crucial to engaging the prospect and uncovering pain points. When you ask incisive questions, you position yourself as a knowledgeable advisor. Sometimes a prospect might even say, “Hmm, good question…” and by thinking about it, they realize something new about their situation – and they’ll credit you for that insight. That’s huge; you’ve added value before even pitching your product. A non-intuitive tip: ask questions even when you think you know the answer. It’s tempting to assume (especially if you’ve seen many similar clients) and jump in with solutions. But asking the question does two things: confirms you’re right (or corrects you if you’re wrong, which saves embarrassment later), and more importantly, it lets the customer voice it. People believe what they say more than what they hear – so if they articulate their need or problem in answer to your question, it’s more convincing than you telling them. For instance, you might know their industry likely has compliance challenges, but instead of saying “You probably struggle with compliance,” ask “How are you handling regulatory compliance? Any challenges there?” If they then detail a challenge, it’s now their acknowledged problem, ripe for you to solve. In summary, asking great questions is like having a flashlight in a dark cave: it illuminates the path for both you and the buyer. Keep that flashlight shining, and you’ll always be a step ahead in guiding the conversation and closing the sale.